Marry Well and Often

Anita Gordon has researched the lives of many of the women who lived in eighteenth-century Port Tobacco. The title of todays blog comes from her. Some of the women she has studied were widowed and the next husband was, if not of the same economic level, at least a bit better off than the last husband. One of my favorite women from this time period is Janet or Jennet or Jane Kinsman. She married four times and outlived them all.

 


1775 Etching by an unknown artist
It is a caricature of Elizabeth Chudleigh, the ‘Duchess Countess’
who was tried for bigamy in 1776
Janet was not a bigamist
but the turn around time between her marriages was rapid.

I know nothing about Janet’s first marriage. Her husband may have been a McLane, as she had a daughter named Margaret McLane. Margaret was born about 1729 and married Ignatius Luckett, Jr. in 1749. Janet’s second marriage was to Arthur Westwood. They had a daughter Anne who was born after 1734.[i] Arthur Westwood was a mariner, but he also held an ordinary or tavern license. In 1740, Arthur purchased Lot 55 in Port Tobacco, and it was here that the family lived and kept their ordinary.[ii] While Arthur plied his trade as a sailor, Janet kept the tavern. Women tavern keepers were not unusual during the eighteenth century. By some estimates, up to two-thirds of the taverns across the Potomac River in Virginia were managed by middling women or widows.[iii] Janet also had two indentured servants, a man and a woman, who worked in the tavern.[iv]

 


Settling the Affairs of the Nation
Richard Purcell? 1766-1799
Published by Carington Bowles, London
British Museum
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Alike 4.0 International (CC BY-NC-SA 4.0) license

Janet and Arthur were married for about a decade. He renewed his ordinary license in November 1742, but within 8 months he was dead and Janet was remarried to James Freeman, a joiner by trade.[v] 


Wedding Scene "The Gentle Shepherd, Act V"
Allan Ramsay, 1725
Printed by G. Reid & Co., 1798
Lewis Walpole Library, Yale University


Arthur’s probate inventory includes items associated with his time at sea: a “See Bed,” Quadrant & Nocturnal (for setting time at night and navigation), and a large boat. There were also objects associated with the tavern: 2 dozen tobacco pipes, 1 pewter gill (a quarter pint measure), 2 punch bowls, a punch ladle, 6 dozen bottles (probably empty), 17 1/2 gallons of rum, a parcel of brown earthenware (which may be mugs for the bar), and forms and tables for the patrons to sit at. We have recovered similar artifacts at other tavern sites in Port Tobacco through archaeological excavation. Arthurs personal belongings were valued at 103 pounds, 14 shillings, and 8 pence (£103.14.8). Another £22 sterling was found in the house by his administrators.



Tobacco Pipes (above) and Wine or Rum Bottle (below)
 found during excavation in Port Tobacco

 

List of Debts owed to Arthur Westman's Estate
Most of these are probably bar tabs
Janet and James Freeman appeared in court as  administrators of the Westman estate on 10 May 1744.[vi] The estate account they presented is a veritable list of local residents. Many of the people on the list owed the estate money. Of the 157 men in the account who paid debts to the estate 127 of them owed the estate a few shillings or pence. For example Mark McFerson owed the estate 6 pence, while Matthews Smith, Edward Jenkins and John Delozier owed a shilling each. The payments were not itemized, so it’s uncertain if these were all unpaid bar bills. However, contemporary court records list the costs of a quart of strong beer as 2 pence, half a gill of rum as 3 pence, and a bowl of punch as 1 shilling, 6 pence.

 

After the estate was settled, the Freemans continued to have trouble with patrons who were not paying their bar bills and had to take them to court. By late February 1746, John Marten, Jr. had racked up a bar bill of £12.2.2. John promised to pay, but he kept ducking James Freeman, and so Freeman sued him for the amount plus damages. The court records include the unpaid bill for the period 8 April 1743 through 26 February 1746. Marten kept asking for a continuance at successive courts. Finally in March 1747 the Charles County Court ordered him to pay his bill plus £8.1.5 and a half penny in costs. It’s interesting to note that in the list of charges there is an 8 shillings charge for breaking a mug.[vii]

 


Fragments of Rhenish Mugs Recovered from John Muschett's Property
Muschett owned a Brewery in the town near the Sign of the Ship


During the March 1746 court session, James and Janet were accused of breaking the Sabbath and of assaulting Alexander McClaron. One of the witnesses in the case was Bartholomew Hatton, a joiner, who the Freemans would continue to have problems with. The Freemans posted £20 bond and promised to be on their good behavior. During the November Court Janet was found guilty of the breach of peace and fined 2 shillings, 6 pence plus court costs. The problems with McClaron continued and he and the Freemans were brought into the court in June 1747 charged with assaulting one another. They all pleaded not guilty, but the court found them guilty and fined each of them one shilling.[viii]

A Brawl in a Tavern
Jan Steen, 17th Century
Orlando Museum of Art

On 2 August 1748, Janet Freeman submitted the inventory for the estate of her late husband James to the Charles County Orphans Court.[ix] The inventory lists some bar items (punch bowls were still a popular item) but not the billiards table which is mentioned in court records in November. The inventory also indicates that the tavern offered lodging as seven beds, feather and rope, are included in the list. While the Westmans ran the tavern with the help of two indentured servants, the Freemans ran the tavern with a male indentured servant and an older enslaved man. After James Freeman’s death, Janet acquired an enslaved woman named Sarah.

 

Base of a Tin-Glazed Punch Bowl
A Porcelain Sherd and Two sherds of White Salt Glazed Stoneware
Recovered in Port Tobacco


Display of Punch Bowls (rum was the main ingredient)
DeWitt Wallace Decorative Arts Museum, Williamsburg, Virginia. 25 February 2018. 


In November 1748, Janet Freeman appeared before the court to sue Bartholomew Hatton who refused to pay his bar bill. The bill covered the period from 1 April to the end of November 1748 and was primarily for rum and an occasional cider. Hatton owed her 1,246 pounds of Tobacco and Janet was also claiming 9 shillings, one penny in currency for damages that had accrued. The problem was that Hatton had not only skipped town, hed also absconded (the court’s word) from the county. The county sheriff condemned those goods that Hatton had left behind, which included some of his joiner’s tools, molding stock, and 232 foot of Walnut Plank, all valued at 812 pounds of tobacco, which the court paid Janet on 23 February 1748/49.[x]

 



 John Kinsman, an innkeeper, was Janet’s fourth and final husband. She married him sometime between July 1749 when she executed a deed as Janet Freeman and March 1750, when she and John appeared as husband and wife in the Orphan’s Court to settle James Freeman’s estate.[xi] In November of that year, scandal erupted in the town when Mary Cunningham, who was probably an indentured servant, was hauled into court for giving birth to a mulatto child while living at John Kinsman’s house. When John died in December 1760, his inventory listed a sickly mulatto child. This could be Mary Cunninghams child who was bound out to the Kinsmans by the court.[xii]

 


A Paternity Suit
William Hogarth (1697-1764)
G. & J. Robinson & T. Cook, London, 1803


In November 1751, the Kinsmans bought Lot 38 in Port Tobacco, which was across from the courthouse. John also owned Lots 39, 40, and 45. A tavern had been located on these lots for the previous 20 years. They were already living on the property at the time of the purchase, although Janet and her daughter Anne retained possession of the old Westman/Freeman tavern lot. For the next 10 years John and Janet ran the Sign of the Ship tavern together.[xii] By 1760 they had two indentured servants (John Taler and Sarah Roberts) and four enslaved individuals (Samuel, George, Heney, and Martha) working in the tavern. They also owned an enslaved infant named Moses.[xiv] The tavern property included a dwelling house measuring 30 by 28 feet, with four rooms and a passage on the first floor. The rooms may have all had corner fireplaces as there were two brick chimneys. The second floor was unfinished. There was also a 14-foot wide shed addition with a chimney along one side of the house, a detached kitchen, and several outbuildings.[xv]

After John Kinsman died, Janet shold the Billiard Table
Maryland Gazette, No. 878, 4 March 1762, page 2
 When John died in late December 1760, his will gave the entire estate to Janet. His inventory listed tavern items that included a billiard table, 3 balls, 2 darts and a cue, 5 pine benches, 2 gallons of cane spirits, 20 gallons of rum, 7 gallons of madeira wine, 4 dozen plus bottles of Claret, and 6 and half dozen bottles of strong beer. The entire personal estate was valued at £426.1.9.[xvi]



Reproduction  1770s Billiard Table, Fort Michilimackinac, Michigan

On 7 January 1762, Janet Kinsman ran an advertisement in the Maryland Gazette announcing her intentions to shortly leave Maryland for Virginia. She asked all those with debts against or owing to her late husband’s estate to settle their accounts. She finished her announcement by stating that she was still carrying on business at the Sign of the Ship.[xvii] 

Maryland Gazette, No. 870, 7 January 1762, page 3

A few weeks later, Janet, her daughter Anne Westman Minor and Anne’s husband John, sold her original tavern on Lot 55 to John Lucky, a shoemaker from St. Mary’s County. Five years later, Janet sold the rest of her property in Port Tobacco to her two grandsons, David and Lawson Luckett and her daughter Anne Minor. Janet died at her daughter Anne’s home in Fairfax County, Virginia sometime between 3 November 1773 when she wrote her will and 15 June 1774 when it was admitted for probate in Charles County, Maryland. There were no indentured servants in her household when Janet died. Instead she held several enslaved individuals. Her granddaughters Jane and Marcia Minor were given Moses and a mulatto girl named Isabella Grant, both of whom were in their teens. Sam, who was listed in John Kinsman’s inventory was to be sold, and the rest were to be rented out. Only Isabella was eventually freed when she reached the age of 31. [xx]

 

Samuel Richardson wrote in his 1748 novel Clarissa that “Marriage is the highest state of friendship. If happy, it lessens our cares by dividing them, at the same time that it doubles our pleasures by mutual participation.” While Clarissa did not find happiness, perhaps Janet found some in one of the four marriages she entered.

 


Illustration from Richardson's Novel Clarissa, 1785
"Clarissa Rejects Lovelace's Proposal"
Daniel Nikolaus Chodowiecki


[i] Charles County Land Records (CCLR) Liber Z no. 2, folio 354.

[ii] CCLR Liber O no. 2, folio 350. Charles County Court Records Liber T no. 2, folio 453.

[iii] Meacham, Sarah Hand. “Keeping the Trade: The Persistence of Tavernkeeping among Middling Women in Colonial Virginia.” Early American Studies 3(1):140-163, 2005.

[iv] Family Search, Charles County Inventories, 1735-1753, page 228.

[v] Ibid. Charles County Court Records Liber T no. 2, folio 453.

[vi] Family Search, Charles County Administrative Accounts, 1738-1759, page 128.

[vii] Archives of Maryland Vol. 862, pages 330-332.

[viii] Ibid. pages 3, 18-19, 24, 88-90.

[ix] Family Search, Charles County Inventories, 1735-1753, page 373.

[x] Archives of Maryland Vol. 863, paged 285-287.

[xi] Ibid.

[xii] Charles County Court Records, 1750, page 140; Family Search, Charles County Inventories, 1753-1766, page 259.

[xiii] CCCLR Liber Z no. 2, folio 532. “Swaney’s Neglect” Patented Certificate 959, MSA S1195-971.

[xiv] Family Search, Charles County Inventories, 1753-1766, page 259.

[xv] The Widows Venture, Unpatented Certificate 508, MSA S1218-519.

[xvi] Family Search, Charles County Wills Liber A.D. no. 5, folio 176. Inventories 1753-1766, page 259.

[xvii] Maryland Gazette no. 870, pg. 3. 1 January 1762 and no. 871, pg. 3. 14 January 1762

[xviii] CCLR Liber L no. 3, folio 76; Liber O no. 3, folios 190, 306. Family Search, Charles County Wills Liber A.E. no. 6, folio 198. 

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